Watch Your Elbows, Lady

This weekend I attended the Who's Who in 'I Do' Bridal Show at Generations Hall in New Orleans, LA. So, I am here to bring a few tips on how to brave the crowds, get good information, and what to expect.

Ladies, if you are not a bride...don't hesitate to march yourself right on in! Borrow your momma's ring, slap on the 'bride' sticker, and be a princess for the day! Grab a glass of complementary champagne and enjoy the unending cake samples. There is sure to be a fashion show to catch or centerpiece displays that are meant for your gawking.

Brides-to-be, there are a few things to have prepared before entering the room of bridezillas (yes, they will use elbow force if you are in their way of a desired booth). First, although I am sure you will want to look cute and sophisticated...wear comfortable shoes. Second, print out a page of labels that include your name, contact information, and wedding date. You can simply paste these on sign-in sheets at booths you are interested in hearing more about. Third, bring a camera! There are cakes, centerpieces, and dresses that you will want to remember for later. Take an idea and make it your own! And lastly, don't...and I repeat don't drag your fiancé to these things! It is a room full of overwhelmed women...ooing and ahhing, pushing and shoving, and they simply don't want any part of it. You can bring information home and discuss it over a beer but please don't torture the man.

Most of all, have fun! Take advantage of the multitude of photo booths and take your time to take it in. We're girls and we like this kind of stuff. It is your turn to be Who's Who in I Do!

Do You Have What it Takes?

I am now 22 years old, out of college, and hitting the real world with full force. My professors prepared me for interviews, taxes, and spreadsheets but surely not what it takes to be an A+ bridesmaid.

I know this all sounds a little ridiculous but I am getting more wedding invitations than paychecks! So this poses my question, when given the honor to stand in a wedding, what are my duties?

Let’s start with the origin of the bridesmaid. In the 19^th century, it was said that evil spirits would enter the nuptials with intent to curse the ‘I Do’s.’ The goal of the wedding party was to protect the bride and groom and surround them throughout the wedding.

Now, since we no longer believe in evil spirits intending to do harm (and no, your mother in-law doesn’t count as an evil spirit) the bride wants us there for support and assistance. And this doesn’t just mean on the big day.

First thing to note, whatever your bride loves, you love. This includes your camouflage dress or her decision to play “Feel like makin’ love” as the couple’s first dance tune. Suck it up and hush it up!

Ask her what she needs in preparation for the wedding. Offer to organize a bridesmaid get-together to assemble party favors or centerpieces. Initiative is key!

Plan a party! Although this is not required, it’s surely a nice gesture. Themes to consider: Stock the Pantry, Wine Tasting Shower, Lingerie, Garden Party, or Honeymoon Shower. Take creative reign with the shower and decor and ask guest to dress according to the theme (floppy hats, sexy pumps, or go for a clothing color theme).

Most importantly, be there for your bride. You are in her elite lineup because you mean something special to her! Show her that you care and you have her back. So get a tan, touch up your roots, and don’t lock your knees. I assume you’d like to pass on a pass out. Until next time belles!

(Below is the first draft of the Southern Bells logo. Special thanks to Andrew Crane!)